Walk out of that door every morning with a smile to make people happy or maybe just move on with things, even though it really hurts. Suppressing and hiding your feelings to see that particular person happy who means so much than life.
So you sacrifice all your pain and you do what keeps them happy. Basically you lie about your feelings for their sake. There is more to a relationship between two people.
The understanding and caring or sometimes even the sacrifice. But you cannot keep sacrificing from your half of the relationship. It would explode your nerves and even your heart someday.
Yes, there is a line. You cannot always keep hiding those feelings to keep them happy now. Can you?
You think it is very healthy for your relationship. But you cannot control it after a certain point. When you think they are dominating how you live. When you start figuring out maybe you have done a little too much. When you start realizing this is not perfect.
But what we don't tend to remember is that, at that point we get very selfish. You do not recognize the sacrifice the other person made. We look beyond their love and understanding. We think we are doing too much but do not step into their shoes!!
All that I am saying is, relationships are made by two people. They involve two lives, two hearts, two emotions, two feeling and even two visions. We need to accept the other person with their flaws and beauty! If we fail to do so, what is the point of that relationship?
-Friday, 8th June 2012 [6:15pm]
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